Nov 8, 2012

Say No to Stress!


Hey Seniors:  The first major early deadline, November 1st, has come and gone.  Those of you who had early applications made it through using Naviance for the first time, but there was lots of panic in the Guidance Office:               

“It says its STILL PENDING”
“Has my teacher sent my letter!?”
“Have you sent my transcripts!?”
Why doesn’t it say COMPLETED?!?
How many of you heard your counselor say “I’ve NEVER missed a college application deadline?”  (Ever, Never, No Never ever -- Never)

Some seniors are still having nightmares about the University of Illinois application, especially the self-reported academic record or SRAR -- seniors love saying “SRRRARR…”.  How many of you waited until Halloween to submit?!

Seniors shared some advice on how they handle stress:

D. says -The stress makes me very tired… Running and napping help a lot.
S. says - When it’s too much I just stop - hang out with my sister or watch a movie.
J. says - I have a cute magnetic board in my room with a college checklist - I can see
              what is ahead and it calms me.

Stress Reducers 
·      Get up 15 minutes earlier
·      Breathe deeply
·      Exercise - take a walk
·      Take time for things you like to do 
·      Connect with your friend - nurture those relationships
·      Do something fun - every day
·      Talk it out when you’re angry
·      Take frequent breaks
·      Listen to music you like
·      Stop worrying about what you can’t control
For more (there are 100!)
“Stress drives all kinds of biochemical changes in our bodies: It instantaneously increases our heart rate and blood pressure, makes our guts not function well and creates damage to our blood vessels and organs.” (J. David Forbes-Nashville Integrated Medicine)

“Since we are unlikely to avoid stressors altogether, stress-proofing your brain is a wise approach to our 24 hour brand of anxiety.  There are things you can do so you will be less reactive to a stressor when one hits”, says MIT instructor Thea Singer.

Scientific studies show SOCIAL SUPPORT is huge and helps us to not over react to stress.  The benefits apply whether you are giving or receiving social support.  Volunteering is a huge stress buster.

Watch the STRESS EATING (GW Coach!!)  It makes you feel temporarily better, but over time it wears down our ability to keep anxiety reasonably controlled.  Instead, read a book, take a walk, jump rope.

Meditation is great.  Try Compassion Meditation, a technique aimed at creating more empathy and acceptance of others -- VERY HELPFUL in warding off stress, Singer says.

Notice something good that happened to you today and tell someone about it.  Do something nice for someone else.  Science says this REALLY WORKS.

                                                                        T.T.Y.L
                                                                        GW College Coach

(Check out “Time To Do Reset on Stress” by Heidi Stevens, Chicago Tribune October 21, 2012)